Hello—
and welcome to the middle of August—already? So it would seem…
This week I thought I'd string a few teachings together to address the "loop"of an old pattern that we can all too easily fall into.
There we are, going along just fine when we hit a pitfall—"an unsuspected difficulty" that can trigger the tumble into the loop.
See if this feels familiar:
First we take "The Bait" (3:33)—when we feel we're not being seen, honored, heard or appreciated.
Then we "Plead Our Case" (2:11)—explaining Our Selves to people who are not listening to us, in the hopes they'll "get it".
When we tire of that tack and are ready to take a step back, we can then begin to discern moments that are "Game Changers / Deal Breakers" (3:00).
These then lead us to the course correction—the pivot—that becomes the life altering "Turning Point" (3:07)
When we're willing not only to read the signposts along the way but also act on them, stepping out of the loop, making different choices and creating a new path for Our Selves becomes quite possible. Doesn't it?
How does all this land with You? Is this a clearer map for how we can all change pitfalls into pivots? Share your thoughts by commenting on any of the videos.
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In the meantime, may you move from pitfalls to pivots as you step out of that loop and release what no longer serves you.
Continue to stay safe and well.
Onwards—gently.
Until next time—
Thanks much.
Cheers,
Steph
Stephanie Swafford, BCPP, BFRP
"When It’s Time to Listen To Your Self"
