Welcome to Spring!—although looking at all the recent weather, Spring doesn't seem to be what it once was… Sounds like the only constant to me: change.
Now that we've touched on that given, let's consider a quote I read recently: "I have chosen a life of purpose, rather than achievement." It's the difference betwen the reason to do something and the reward of it. No small task in this day and age, is it?
And yet, when we concentrate on the purpose of what we're doing, any achievement becomes secondary and an unexpected bonus along the way.
Now I'm not saying for a mintue that achievement doesn't matter and isn't something to be savored. However, it's not the driving force that spurs us on, is it?
It's about being in the moment, having our wits about us and addressing the task(s) at hand.
It's not about what we might gain, how it will be received, or any recognition that we feel we're due.
When we can parse and practice the difference between the two, there's a certain pressure and even worry that's lifted. We can then concentrate on the "cake", if you will.
Should the "icing" become available, then things are just that much sweeter.
Either way, that cake can stand alone quite nicely.
What is your relationship to "Purpose vs. Achievement" (2:30)?